How does one succeed in life?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What I need from you?

Why are girls supposed to have a stereotypical "hourglass" body shape, and why if you dont have an "hourglass" body shape you get treated differently? It doesnt make any sense to me.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Who writes and reads novels nowadays?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why cant I sleep? When I'm about to fall asleep, I get excited that im about to sleep, causing me to wake up again. It repeats till my sleepiness is gone. I tried taking melatonin and not using my phone, but I end upawake for hours.

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why am I sweating so much when I try to do anything?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Can a twin flame runner be happy in a karmic relationship?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How do I become a Buddhist, and can someone explain Buddhism to me?

Procrastinates a lot.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

There’s another leak on the ISS, but NASA is not saying much about it - Ars Technica

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

That's it for today.

Can I know a love story of a medical student?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do you think that drug addiction is a symptom of larger societal ills? What is it about our culture that leaves so many feeling like they're inadequate, trying any ill to find a cure?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why don't people like Nickelback?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Whenever I write a novel, I struggle with the end, should I make it open? Should the good win or the bad win? Sometime I don't even have an ending, what should I do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does not procrastinate.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.